Why I co-sleep


When my first son was born, I was 20. I was young and didn’t know a ton about babies. We bought him a crib, a bassinet, a swing, a bouncy seat and a playpen. I had one of all of the baby contraptions that are meant to either contain, soothe or entertain my precious bundle of joy. Problem was, every time I tried to put him in any of these things so I could eat, sleep, shower, or whatever else, he would wake up and cry. I thought I was obviously doing something wrong. Surely he knew this big, cold, empty crib was where he was supposed to sleep at night.

It was a rare and short event when he actually did. It was also rare that I slept when trying to get him to sleep in any one of these baby containers, so I laid down with him on my chest, and he slept! When he would wake, I would nestle him into the crook of my arm and latch im onto my breast, and he slept.  

When I became a mom, I also became the world’s lightest sleeper. A loud breath, a tiny baby snore, or the movement of a baby toe would jolt my senses awake, but as soon as I realized all was well, I was back to sleep.  I didn’t have to get up or call 911.  I got used to my baby where he was already used to me.

Sleep: something I thought was impossible.

Once baby #2 arrived, the crib had become storage for blankets and stuffed animals. I had realized I didn’t have to feel miserable. I didn’t have to get up out of bed or have the baby wake up the entire household by crying out for me. I was always right there.

By baby #4, the crib was packed up in storage. By baby #5, two babies co-slept with me. It was so easy and such a normal flow. I was always rested and Dad was hardly ever wakened by a crying baby at night.  Hello, Dad WIN.  

If you plan to co-sleep, do so safely! Co-sleeping is not for everyone. If you or your significant other are very hard sleepers, take medication, or drink, you should avoid co-sleeping. Your baby should not sleep around soft pillows, blankets or comforters. Another option is to use a co-sleeper that goes against the edge of your bed rather than having baby in bed with you.

Some may think I co-sleep because I’m lazy, but I think I co-sleep because I’m smart!

Do you co-sleep? Why or why not? How do you feel about it?

photo credit: Sarah Ann Koller (her hubby and sweet baby)

Author: Charlise Lee

I am a Crunchy Mama of 5 rowdy boys and 2 sweet girls! I also gave birth to a baby girl in January 2016 for an awesome couple as their surrogate. I married my awesome husband, Brian in October 2016 and we are located in a little city outside of Dallas, Texas. I am a jill-of-many-trades. I run a laundry service, do custom sewing and even sell lactation cookies to my locals. I love to shop at thrift stores, take showers without an audience and spend time dreaming of a life off the grid! Follow me on Instagram for behind-the-scenes photos in the life of my crunchy family!